He just popped the question! You said YES!, You wipe away a tear, hug each other and stare at the new addition on your finger. You have a million thoughts running through your head…When will it be? What will my dress look like? I have to get my nails done to show off my ring. I need to change my relationship status on Facebook to "engaged!" Overwhelming, right?
In the midst of all your planning, here are some questions you and your groom need to ask when visiting the tux shop:
WHAT ARE THE COLORS AND WHAT IS THE OVERALL STYLE OF YOUR WEDDING?
Knowing this will help you narrow down your options. If your style is whimsical and more casual then it is safe to say you do not want your groom and groomsmen in tails (a more formal look). When doing research, take a mental note of what you see other grooms and groomsmen wearing and decide what you and your fiancé like and don't like.
SHOULD WE DO A TUX OR SUIT? WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE?
A tux usually has (but doesn't have to have) satin lapels (attached to the collar) and covered buttons. The pants also have a satin racing stripe down the leg. Either is acceptable and can be achieved in different colors. Tuxes are mostly found in black, charcoal, grey, brown, tan, ivory and white; while suits can be found in these colors as well as navy and linen.
DO YOU WANT TO DIFFERENTIATE YOUR GROOM FROM THE GROOMSMEN?
Sometimes couples put the groom in something different to separate them from the groomsmen (like the bride), and sometimes couples want more uniformity. One option you may want to think about is putting your groom in a white or ivory vest and tie or bow tie (depending on your dress), and the groomsmen in the same color as your bridesmaids. Another option is to have the groom wear a vest and tie or bow tie that matches your bridesmaids and the groomsmen in a neutral vest (black, charcoal, taupe or grey) with the tie the color of your bridesmaids. The last option is to add a pocket square to the mix. This is a square of fabric folded and placed into the left breast pocket of the suit or tux. These can be worn with or without the boutonniere.
The options are endless, so when in doubt always go back to the main style of your wedding to make sure everything fits together. Menswear professionals also are readily available to offer advice and guidance.
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