After the Ring: The Gift of Jewelry for All of Life's Events

THE WEDDING GIFT

Her wedding ring… check. Your wedding ring… check. Gentlemen, just when you thought you were in the clear, right?  Then someone asks you, “What are you going to get her for the wedding gift?” After you pick your jaw up from the ground it’s time to get serious about it.  

Some things to consider are jewelry pieces she can wear for the wedding day and beyond. A “Bride’s Pendant”, where most of the designs are interpreted as two lives joining as one, is a fine selection. You might also think about earrings, pearls or a diamond fashion bracelet that will match her wedding dress. It could even be as special as a one-of-a-kind custom creation from a jeweler's Master Jeweler. Regardless, it is a very sentimental purchase that should be thought of before it sneaks up on you.
 

HER BIRTHDAY

Another year older and what do you get? Hopefully she’ll get something in the form of jewelry to help ease any pain or suffering she may endure recognizing the fact that one more candle will be added to the cake. Something shiny will probably help offset any obsessing of that extra wrinkle “that wasn’t there before.”  

Jewelry stores offer big gifts in small packages. Not considering any dollar amounts, the “big gift” is much more about the impact of what you get her and the significance of you choosing a symbol of love for her. Something with her birthstone or her favorite colored gem is a good choice. Consider a jewelry box with an engraved monogrammed plate to help organize all her special pieces of jewelry she’ll acquire throughout your lives together.
 

CHRISTMAS

The stress and hustle-bustle of the holidays can be overwhelming! And then you’ve got to get her a Christmas present on top of it?! Take some stress off yourself and visit a jewelry store where you can find “Santa’s little helpers.” Stocking stuffers are abundant and can range in looks and prices.

Consider his/hers watches and top it off with some engraving to personalize it. Collectibles such as a Lladr?, Waterford or Willow Tree branded nativity scenes may add to the warmth of your holiday get-togethers. Finish off the pendant or ring that you gave her earlier in the year with a matching pair of earrings or bracelet. Whatever you select, try and envision her face and expression as she opens the gift of jewelry – you’ll be her hero of the holiday! The way it’ll sparkle in the Christmas lights will give a whole new meaning to the words “Christmas ornament”!
 

VALENTINE’S DAY

Cupid’s arrow already struck. Even though you’re married, that infamous February 14th holiday where all the attention goes to the girls means guys…well, you better follow through. The solution? A fine jewelry store. It’s a place where women go and get into trouble and men go to get out of it.

Heart-shaped jewelry of any kind is a good fallback. But if she can do without hearts, then consider that annual Christmas item that you forgot (and are still hearing about).  That may make up some points for you. Think about getting her some Waterford Crystal champagne flutes and surprising her with something “sparkly” in it to accompany the bubbles. Recognizing Valentine’s Day with your sweetie is a special time you should enjoy together. Without some jewelry to present to her, you might find the winter to be a bit longer and a bit colder!
 

FIRST ANNIVERSARY

Wow how time flies! Seems like just yesterday you were a nervous wreck walking down the aisle. Now you are seasoned, married for a year and have gotten used to referring to her as your wife and have stopped looking over your shoulder when she refers to you as her husband. First wedding anniversaries are a special time and momentous occasion to celebrate. 

Anniversary bands are a great consideration to mark the event. They are typically purchased with the intent of being worn on the right hand ring finger. Depending on her wedding set, another new band might look fantastic on the opposite side of the engagement ring – matching her current wedding band, of course. You might also consider starting a charm bracelet. That would be great to add to through your special times and journeys together throughout your marriage. The addition of child(ren), a new home, trips and vacations are some charm choices to consider.
 

YOUR FIRST CHILD

A parent. Who, me? That’s right… welcome to parenthood and the wonderful joys that it entails. You may have heard of “Push Presents” – a gift you give to your wife in honor of your first child. That term seems a bit tacky for me. I prefer a “Labor of Love” gift for her. 

Consider jewelry that has the child’s birthstone in it. Keep in mind, something you might be able to add to if you have more children could be a great idea. Gulp!  A Lladr? figurine or some other type of symbol to mark this new member to your family is an important thing to do. Giving her the “Labor of Love” gift while she is still in the hospital will get you extra points! But no worries, giving her something soon after will be received just as well.